When people reach middle age, they should make as few friends as possible, otherwise they will easily suffer losses

Many people like to make friends because they think that friends can help when they need support, and when they encounter problems, one more person can give you suggestions“ "One more friend, one more way" sounds right, but is it really good to make new friends blindly? In middle age, there are more social activities and more new friends, but it's better not to make these four types of friends, or you will suffer losses sooner or later!

1. Often borrow money and don't pay it back

There is a saying like this: you can't buy a car without accessories, and you can't make friends without credit. This shows that credit is a basic point to measure whether a person is worth making friends with. If someone often borrows money from you and doesn't pay it back, then you can consider estrangement. Borrowing money does not return, that person's character is very poor, do not understand the truth of life. Now many of these situations: those who owe money become big men, while those who borrow money are embarrassed to urge them. When you meet such friends, you should take the initiative to alienate them.

2. The three outlooks are not correct

Don't make friends with people who don't have a good outlook, or you will be imperceptible after a long time. What are the Three Outlooks? "Three Outlooks" refers to the deviation in the world outlook, outlook on life and values. Their three outlooks have been distorted (refer to the villains in TV dramas). He who is close to Zhu is red, and he who is close to Mo is black. Making friends with such a person will only make him dirty.

3. Unfaithfulness, filial piety and injustice

Do not make friends with people who are unfaithful, unfilial and unjust. What is infidelity? It refers to the unfaithfulness between people. Now it is mostly used in love. People who have been cheating for many times should not make friends with each other; What is unfilial? Those who are not filial to their parents but enslave their parents should not make friends with them; What is injustice? It is unjust to do something unjust. Don't make these three kinds of friends to avoid affecting yourself.

4. Hypocrisy

Hypocritical people are the most disgusting. They often say the same thing in front of you, but they don't say the same thing in front of others. Making friends with such people is easy to betray.